But why did they decide to end things? According to Gosling, their mutual stardom became too much for the relationship to handle. Because they were both so famous at the time, they both seemed to neglect their relationship in favor of their acting careers.
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Most people may not be aware of the fact that Ryan Gosling has tattoos. Emma Stone and Ryan Gosling go on a date for their upcoming movie. The two talented stars have a working relationship as the year-old actor and year-old actress had an onscreen romance in comedy Crazy, Stupid, Love. Skip to content Do they end up together in Blue Valentine? Did Cindy ever love Dean? What does a Blue Valentine mean? Is Blue Valentine worth watching?
Who is the protagonist in Blue Valentine? Is Blue Valentine sad? Where can I see Blue Valentine? Watch Blue Valentine Prime Video. Is Blue Valentine on Netflix? Is Blue Valentine based on a book? Did Dean and Cindy get married because they wanted to be sure someone was watching? Or was that Dean's need, and did Cindy lose the thrill of the watch? Here is a film that watches pretty well itself. Derek Cianfrance , the film's writer and director, observes with great exactitude the birth and decay of a relationship.
This film is alive in its details. Toward the end of the six years, when Cindy is hardly able to remember why she wanted to marry Dean, Cianfrance observes the physical and mental exhaustion that has overcome her.
And the way that Dean seems hardly to care — just so long as Cindy remains his wife and his watcher, which in his mind was the deal. Dean thinks marriage is the station. Cindy thought it was the train. She was born right at the start. Cindy is a nurse. Dean is a house painter. When they met, and for some time after, work was hardly central to their lives. It was where they went to and where they returned from. In effective physical transformations, Williams and Gosling give us Dean and Cindy at two ages: their age at present, and at the beginning, when they were filled with that dreamy knowledge that the touch of the other brings quick sensuality.
It is easier for an actor to play the same character at 24 and 60 than at 24 and Though some bodily change occurs, what really happens is a transformation of inner certainty. Williams plays a woman who sits inside her body and no longer knows what it's for and what she wants to do with it. All marriages have milestone moments, events of startling clarity that allow the new lovers to see themselves as a couple who have been defined. Dean is capable of grand goofy romanticism, and Cindy likes that.
She yearns toward it. They first meet at her grandmother's retirement home. Have you ever had one of those chance meetings with a stranger in a place neither one of you belongs? However, love is the thing makes people stupid and nonsense.
Dean surely doesn't deserve that, but love is what makes him a person. It's life. I believe Cindy's and Dean's relationship crumbled because of insecurity. First, from Cindy's point of view, she looks at Dean and sees the perfect guy. I mean Dean is a musician that looks like Ryan Gosling. And he has so much potential even towards the end of their relationship, while she looks at herself and sees a failed pre-med who is only getting promoted because her boss thinks she's hot.
Now Dean has growing insecurity. He is unreasonably jealous and protective, even though the plot proves him to be right. Dean became this way because Cindy is one foot in this relationship, and mostly because of his mother's divorce.
Dean is insecure. He can feel that there is something wrong. And because they don't communicate, their relationship is consumed with insecurity. Dean is very modest to the point that he can't see his own pro's. He only sees his cons. And since he was sensing this for a while, he becomes more and more desperate. I feel that the movie epitomises the reality of one sided relationships. We see Dean who does nothing but work on the relationship, trying to take her away for a night out, asking her is there is 'anything' he can 'change'.
But Cindy, in her own confusion, decides that Dean is not good enough or that she deserves better, from what I see personally, the way she feels lost after she sees Bobby at the store. It's almost as if she is trying to contemplate what her life would be like if she had just stayed with Bobby. Which for me as a viewer is quite upsetting because it's clearly portrayed that he doesn't love her as much as Dean. I don't think they will get back together and as much as it breaks my heart, I think it is what is right.
Dean doesn't deserve to be in a marriage where he constantly feels like he is the 'bad guy'; likewise he and Cindy share very different views and want to live different lifestyles.
Cindy is selfish and Dean just wants a family and someone to love. Their relationship was built on temporary love and, for Cindy, convenience. Cindy was being the responsible parent, making breakfast for Frankie and taking her to school. You can criticise the way she made the oatmeal and did the other chores, but she was the one doing them.
Dean just wants to play, and Frankie of course loves that but as adults how can you not see that Cindy was coping with raising two children? Then Dean essentially rapes Cindy he literally forces himself on her as she says no and scratches him , and then he goes to her work and makes a scene which includes vandalism and assault.
And you're all calling her the selfish one? She does try with him: she tries to connect emotionally, talking about his personality his talents and what he wants from life and then play-fights with him; but his attempts to connect with her are either physical or a prelude to physicality.
Yes he does try and it's frustrating for him that she doesn't love him anymore, but the poor woman was drowning and did nothing wrong by falling out of love with him. I don't want to be saying any of this because I had sympathy for both characters and I don't want to sound like someone who cries 'rape' when Aziz Ansari has a bad date, but you guys are taking it way too far in the other direction and it's literally unbelievable to me that you can't see her massive virtue or his massive glaring flaws.
So my theory is that Cindy lost the baby, or the child died at some point before the film is set. Frankie is actually Deans child. This explains why all the characters age by about 20years especially Cindy's dad and Frankie is still only 7 or 8. Also, Bobby would have known about the child as they were still at school, and he didn't ask about 'her' when he saw Cindy in the shop.
This explains why Cindy is so distant throughout the film and why Dean drinks in the mornings. They are both dealing with the loss of the first child, none more so than Cindy. The relationship can't sustain the pressure and so we witness the final stages of the end of their marriage. Hints are given about this with the loss of Rosie, the dog.
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